I wanted to publish this post earlier this week, but as I began drafting it, I realized that I was about to give advice that I hadn’t taken myself.
Truths often come in pairs, and in some ways this post is a counterpoint to the previous one. We spoke last time of doing the next right thing–focusing on the daily right actions that eventually become our habits and lifestyles. Now we’ll talk about giving those actions a framework and a direction.
The problem, though, is that sometimes I stink at planning. As I started writing this post, I realized that even with this blog, the lack of a plan is evident (once upon a time, we posted 3x per week. At this point, our previous post was 27 days ago). I tend to have lofty goals, and for the most part my plan to attain those goals looks like this:
- Come up with Lofty Goal–for example starting a blog, which will eventually turn into a book, which will then turn into a ministry empire.
- Think of a cool theme for the blog–for example, the quirks of living life after returning from the mission field.
- Make note-to-self to write a groundbreaking blog post on Monday.
- Get distracted by Facebook. Write the post on Tuesday instead.
- Tuesday didn’t work. Maybe next weekend?
- Forget about it until my wife reminds me that I once had a Lofty Goal. Think for a bit about what a great idea it was. Return to Facebook.
I’m sure none of you can relate. I expect that the majority of you never suffer from procrastination or a lack of direction. But just in case one or two of you are like me (yeah, I see that hand in the back row!), here’s my little piece of encouragement: come with a plan.
I’ve mentioned here before that I hope to eventually run a home recording studio. Since returning from the mission field, that’s been one of my major goals. The greatest single step toward that goal was an apprenticeship I did in 2012 at a pro studio in Hollywood. The program that introduced me to my mentor involved unstructured time observing recording sessions with clients, but it also had a curriculum, lessons, and tests. There was structure. There was a plan.
Honestly, after the program was over, I was far less structured than I probably should have been. Yes, life happened–our son and then our daughter were born, we moved to a new state, and there were several day jobs in-between. Still, even in the midst of all that, I honestly think that a more concrete plan would have helped me move closer to the goal than I currently am.
Recently I took part in an online challenge to write, record, and release a song in one month. The thing that struck me about this challenge was that each week had several small, attainable goals. Even as I took the challenge on, I didn’t think I’d really finish. But as I pushed myself to meet the smaller goals (i.e. the next right thing within this framework), I started to see the project coming together. At the end of the month, to my surprise, I had done it. I had actually finished a task.
Staring at a blank page, or an empty resumé, or a zero-balance bank account, or the rest of your life, is always daunting, especially to someone like me who’s not a “finisher.” And, of all the potholes in the re-entry process, this issue has derailed more people than almost any other. One of the most common things I hear from missionaries when they return is “I have no idea what to do with myself.” Trust me, I know how that feels.
Proverbs 29:18 begins by saying, “Where there is no vision, the people are unrestrained.” The King James Version even says they perish. There has to be a vision to point our Next Right Things in a meaningful direction. Creating a plan is a practical way of translating those steps into a fulfilled vision. Sharing your plan can also help to bring accountability into the picture; you’ve stated that you intend to do something, and you want people to hold you to it.
There are about a quadrillion books on the subject of planning, most of them are business-oriented, and most of them are about as exciting as watching paint dry. The better ones all talk about setting measurable, attainable, and time-based goals. One of the things I learned in my recent song challenge was that putting a timer on myself actually helped me to get things done.
One lesson I’ve learned in my six years in Re-entry is that God can work just as effectively–arguably even more so–through many small moments as He can through a few big ones. We have these mountaintop experiences, and they give us a glimpse of the big picture, but most of the real work of the Kingdom is done through living our everyday lives in a way that’s pleasing to Him. The significance of the big moments is that they give us something to work toward in the small ones. Mountaintops help to establish our vision; they show us where we need to go. Creating a plan, and keeping it submitted to the Lord, can help us blaze the trail to actually get there.