Toddlers are notorious for being selfish.
So far, we have managed to escape the “MINE!” phase with our two year old simply by not introducing the word to him yet. However, when something that he does want is taken from him, his eyes turn black as he points and screams for several minutes at the object of his desire, so I wouldn’t necessarily call this a parenting win.
It’s so interesting spending my days with a tiny human who thinks that he deserves certain things that he deems his. But really, when I think about it, I am not that different than my toddler who feels he deserves his every whim.
In previous posts, I’ve written a lot about contentment- it’s been a recurring lesson in my life recently. In attempting to be content in every circumstance, I’ve noticed a common thread of a deeper issue that toys with my ability to be satisfied: entitlement.
I didn’t realize until fairly recently that most of my sense of entitlement was actually linked to my time in missions and ministry. I felt that, since I gave up time, money, and opportunity to be in ministry for a season of my life, I was somehow now entitled to a life that I wanted, or worse, deserved.
It’s what I like to call karma-based grace, and it is absolutely detrimental to one’s faith.